“You are imperfect, you are wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging.”
As we conclude this three-part series on building authentic, genuine, and unshakable self-worth, let’s take a quick look back at what we’ve covered so far:
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The following have nothing to do with true self-worth.
Now, I want to make it clear that there is nothing wrong with any of these things. These can all be worthwhile parts of life to be enjoyed in their own way.
They simply don’t add to self-worth at all.
Many of us strain and strive with most of our time and energy pursuing these things. Yet we wonder why even when we achieve them there still seems to be something missing. Why is it never “enough?”
You’ll likely notice something in common with all of the above pursuits.
And it’s probably the greatest key to why so many people struggle with self-worth.
All of the above are external. They are all circumstances outside of us.
And again, while there’s nothing wrong with pursuing and enjoying these aspects of life, the problem arises when we look for our sense of self-worth in outer circumstances, where it can’t be found.
True self-worth comes from within.
It comes from accepting and loving yourself, unconditionally—strengths, weaknesses, growth, mistakes–all of it.
It comes from knowing yourself deeply.
It comes from knowing what you value
It comes from living with integrity—being honest and authentic with yourself and others.
It comes from spending time on the people and pursuits most important to you.
It comes from being able to look yourself in the mirror and know you are trying to live your best life.
It comes from trying to become a bit more kind, patient, caring, and compassionate.
It comes from the love you allow yourself to give—and receive—with others.
It comes from knowing that—like Fred Rogers said—“there is no one in the whole world quite like you.”
It comes from remembering that you are a unique, conscious, living human being here on Earth to experience and fulfill your purpose in this life (even if you’re not sure what that is yet).
It comes from remembering that all life is valuable—including yours.
I hope you’ve enjoyed this series, and I’d love to hear your thoughts and insights in the comments. Feel free to share about your own journey to self-worth.
Be well and I’ll see you in the next blog!
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